Day 0, conception Day 20, a heartbeat. Day 43, electrical brainwaves sensed. Week 9, baby has unique fingerprints. Week 12, all body systems functioning. These are some of the earliest signs of life for a human being, new life that begins the moment the first single cell is formed on day 0. The Alan Guttmacher Institute states that 1 baby is aborted every 25 seconds. By the time I finish this message, more than 16 of these new lives will have been eradicated. The cruel reality of abortion today. How can we let this go on? Why are so many innocent lives so thoughtlessly discarded by the very people who caused their existence?
When I first heard of the concept of abortion, I was utterly flabbergasted. What kind of woman would willingly give up the greatest privilege, the highest honour that only half of mankind has been blessed with – the honour of bringing life into the world? What sort of man would turn down an offer to have tenderness, purity, and innocence born once again in this now troubled, taxing world? And what possibility of a bright future would a society that supported this absurd decision expect to have, when the very building blocks that will one day produce great nations are being denied the right to see the light of day? As I sat in my bedroom, pondering this tragedy that scars our daily lives, I found truly deplorable answers.
Whereas pregnancy was once exalted an a commendable contribution to society, it is regarded today as in the words of Armstrong Williams, a ‘burden on our individuality and lifestyle.’ Modern feminism has indeed devalued motherhood, as is made evident by the women who cry out for liberation from this slavery, from the swelling in their stomachs, that weighs them down like shackles. And we, as a society, undeniably foster this notion, planting the bitter seeds in every mind that a woman with child is far less likely to succeed in the workplace, and in life. Well, after spending seventeen years with the woman who brought me into this world and enriched my life with love and moral values, who single-handedly worked with determination to fulfill my every need and more, after so many fortifying and enlightening years with the woman I call ‘my ma’, I can confidently debunk this myth. A mother can indeed be self-sufficient and successful in today’s world.
I understand that bringing up a child is no easy task, not for married couples, and certainly not for single mothers – which I might add, has become a popular trend of modern civilization, arising from our casual ‘modern’ attitudes to sex and the quick, guaranteed, publically accepted Plan B- ABORTION. My mom tackled the same challenges that so many lone mums face. She did not have a trust fund to fall back on; she did not have a partner to cut her some slack when shee was exhausted or ill….Yet not once did she wish to be free of me to be able to go back and undo my birth which would have spared her the toil, “THE IRKSOME RESPONSIBILITY”. For her, I was the purpose, the motivation, the reward. And I stand here today, proud and in awe of her for the individual that she has raised, and grateful that she believed that I was worth the sacrifice. Because of her I believe that giving every child his/her right to LIFE is worth the sacrifice and it is definitely NOT ours to decide whether to extinguish or exterminate this right.
Unfortunately, deciding whether to carry the child to term is often further complicated, as 2008 statistics show. Out of the 98% of abortions conducted in this country due to ‘personal choice’, 32% were done because the mother was too young or unprepared for the responsibility, and 30% due to the economic reasons. Can you envision the countless lives, the valuable futures that would have been saved, had these women considered adoption? I truly cannot imagine having to leave my baby in the hands of a stranger, however, entrusting him to a family than can care and provide for him as I cannot is a sacrifice that a mother’s selfless love makes possible. But the rest of us should be ashamed for turning a blind eye on the 40 trillion dollars spent annually on abortion, ashamed of even being the self-righteous parent or ‘friend’ who pressured a woman into extinguishing that flame of life within her, ashamed of trivialising the nature of sex to begin with. Wouldn’t you agree that it is our duty as human beings to instead, face the consequences and support those struggling parents, or at least take in these poor children if we are in a better position to do so, than to callously discard them, as mere products of carelessness?
Ultimately, it comes down to you and the value you place on life. I stand before you to remind you of the incredible power you yield in determining the future of our world – it is up to you. Is it even possible to forget, laws and politics, egos and ambition, the dreamy TV romances we seek in our own lives….Well, I am asking you, whatever your race or religion may be, to forget the rest of the world, just for a moment and strip it down to just you and the unborn child. Could you really exploit such innocence, such helplessness and feel no piercing of your heart? Could you end a life that might not have been created in the most desirable circumstances, but nevertheless is an extension of your own life – could you really do this and bear to look at yourself in the mirror?
We touch other people’s lives simply by existing – J. K. Rowling. Let us make a conscious decision today to be life-giving and just in our daily existences, essentially, to be HUMANE, and let us honour every new life with the opportunity to do the same.